Mike McKinley has good advice to those in church who feel disconnected or feel like the church doesn’t have enough “community” (fellowship and shared life):
So it may sound a little old school (as in Hebrews 10:24-25), but there’s something to be said for the guy who wins the perfect attendance award. If you’re feeling like your church doesn’t have enough community, make sure that you’re plugging in to the opportunities that are offered. And don’t wait for someone to approach you, give them a call and invite them over for lunch after the Sunday gathering.
I would add, that if you’re a church member who is plugged in but have a burden for others who are not, that you engage them on Sunday and set aside time to hang out with them. And take another church member with you.